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Monday, January 28, 2013

Happy 22nd Birthday, Little Bro!

22 years ago, I became a big sister…..

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I remember dad picking me up from Kindergarten and telling me Josh had been born.  I could hardly contain my excitement as I gathered my stuff, and headed out the door, but not before I asked my Kindergarten teacher for an extra sticker for my new little brother.

The picture above was taken moments after getting to meet this new little man in my life.  Little did I know how this little guy would change my world for the better.  Although I was only 5, well 9 days shy of being 6, I remember walking in and seeing my mom holding my new little brother and begging to hold him.  Being 9 lbs, 8 oz and 21 inches long, he felt like he was almost as big as me, but mom let me “hold” him with her assistance (you can see her hand in the bottom left corner).  Although it looks like I am strangling him, I promise I wasn’t – in my mind, he was my own little living baby doll, and I’m sure I was trying to put him on my shoulder and gently tap him on the back just as I did my baby dolls.

As you can see, I was a very proud big sister that day, and I can honestly say that I am just as proud of him today, 22 years later.  Although our relationship has not always been perfect, I think he knows I would do anything for him (and I think he feels the same way about me). Words cannot express how thankful I am to have had the opportunity to see him grow into the smart, talented, sweet, and handsome man he has become and how blessed I feel to have been chosen to be his big sister.

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He was and still is the best early birthday present I’ve ever gotten Smile

Happy 22nd Birthday, Brother Bear!  Thanks for being the best little brother ever!  I love you! Smile

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Last Goodnight Kiss…

Over Skype, that is!

As you can imagine, Alex and I have had lots of Skype dates over the last almost 3 years.  Tonight, we had our very last one (hopefully)

As always, we ended it with a good night kiss, but this time it was extra special because it is last time we have to settle for blowing kisses to each other over Skype - starting tomorrow, we’ll get the real thing! Smile

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Friday, March 23, 2012

Phone Dump Friday

It’s that time again!  Hope you all had a wonderful week! Smile So, here’s my life this week as viewed by my Blackberry…

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Alex swears by these so I decided to try them as part of my “Operation Get Skinny” kick-off week.  I got several flavors and this is the only one I’ve tried so far, but it was really good.  Too bad we don’t have Kroger in T-town…

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As I mentioned above, I’ve started my diet this week (WW to be exact), so this is another picture of my “healthy food”.  I took pictures of a lot of the healthy stuff I was eating this week, probably to make myself feel a little bit better about cheating and eating cookies…oops Winking smile

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Along with my “Operation Get Skinny”, I’m also tackling “Operation get myself organized (or “Find the floor in Maegan’s bedroom”)  Mom got these boxes when the hospital closed and they were perfect for some of my lower heels.  The labels, matching boxes, and neat stacks…swoon.  Now if I could only get the rest of my apartment this neat and tidy

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The “shoe section” of my closet so far.  Wish I could say that I fit all of my shoes in my closet, but no such luck.  Two “under the bed” boxes full of flip flops and wedges, at least 30 shoes in shoe drawers right outside the closet and about 10 pairs waiting to go in….yep, I have a problem. Clearly, I also have a dress problem because HALF of my closet is dresses…

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Yep, another food pic, but this one has at least a fun story to go along with it.  So, you see, I’ve had this bag of frozen stir fry veggies in the freezer for a while and I’ve eyed them several times and then ended up decided to make something else.  I found a stir fry recipe online that I actually had all of the ingredients to make (thanks to our “lettuce wrap” night, I’m now stocked with lots of fun asian ingredients Winking smile) so I decided to try it out.  I was gathering my ingredients and saw the now almost empty soy sauce bottle tipped over sideways in the back of my fridge.  I knew it was full when we put it in but I didn’t see any soy sauce anywhere, so I wasn’t sure what happened.  Then, I thought to check under the drawers at the bottom of the fridge and lo and behold, there was a puddle (and I do mean a puddle) of soy sauce…yuck!  So I spent the next 45 spraying and scrubbing and cleaning the fridge.  It was probably a good thing because I needed to clean the fridge anyway, but geez, what a mess.  Even worse, the stir fry wasn’t that good Sad smile

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Now my fridge is all nice and clean (haven’t organized it yet – that’s Alex’s favorite thing to do so I’ll give him that task when he comes to visit this weekend).  By the way, this is probably the healthiest you’ll ever see my fridge selection (even though it is still far from healthy!) Winking smile

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Thursday night started our yearly coaching clinic.  It is a 3 day affair and if you are reading this before 5:00 pm on Friday, I’m currently working it and have been since 7:00 this morning.  Anyway, because it is a coaching clinic for football, there aren’t many women present SO we turn the women’s bathroom into the storage closet for our stuff for the weekend.  Awesome right?  I wish I’d gotten a picture of the guys taking the stuff in…bless their hearts, they were a bit weirded out Winking smile

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So, in my cleaning streak, I was cleaning out my craft drawers and piling it all on the table.  Of course, in the process, I accidentally knocked over a little acrylic case of rhinestones, and the lid broke off on impact.   Needless to say, I had a mess to clean up….at least it was a pretty one! Sadly, after sitting there and sorting all of these back out into their little compartments, I knocked this over again, not just once more, but twice.  After the third attempt failed, I just threw them in the container, put a rubberband on it, and stuck it back in the craft drawer.  I’ll deal with that another day Winking smile

On that note, Happy Friday and I will see you back again next week!

Much love,

MS

Thursday, November 10, 2011

7 years and counting…

Today marks 7 years of dating for Alex and I!  This year, as with the past few, has been really hard on our relationship, but thankfully it stood strong and here we are celebrating another anniversary.  I am so thankful to have him!  If you are interested in reading about how we met and all that fun stuff, you can read about it here, here, and here.

In honor of our day, I thought it would be fun to look back on all of our past anniversaries ;)   Each caption is linked to the corresponding post if there is one :)

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Fall 2004 (My, what I wouldn’t do to be that skinny and tan again! ;))

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1st Anniversary – November 2005

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2nd Anniversary – November 2006

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3rd Anniversary – November 2007

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4th Anniversary – November 2008

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5th Anniversary – November 2009

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6th Anniversary – November 2010 (Part I, II, III)

This year, we’ve decided to stay in and cook dinner together in lieu of going out so there won’t be a stereotypical table picture.  I’ve been sick and things have been so busy that we felt like we needed a night in to relax, and I promise, regardless of how terrible I look, I will snap a picture of us.  Honestly, I’m excited to have a relaxing night in!  More details on that later!

Happy Anniversary Babe!  Here’s to many more anniversaries to celebrate! :)

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Bathroom Blues, Part IV

Read the first three parts here, here, and here

We were told maintenance would be there at 9:00 am to check on the leak, so that everything would be finished by Friday (the deadline my mom gave them since everyone would be down that Saturday for the home game).  Of course, maintenance wasn’t there until early afternoon.

Thankfully, when maintenance did arrive, it was my favorite maintenance guy so I was a bit relieved to see someone I could deal with.  He checked and couldn’t figure anything out.  A little while later, I got a knock at my door and it was the property manager and the head honcho.  They wanted to see it for themselves and make the decision of whether or not to continue with the project or start all over again.

They decided that they would just continue and if it kept causing problems, they would deal with it later (gotta love their mentality).  They said they would send someone that afternoon to come put the last coat of stuff on the sheet rock.  They also told me that the painters, cleaning crew, and maintenance would be back the next day (Friday) to finish everything up so that I could get my bathroom back in order before everyone arrived on Saturday.

The guy came in fairly late that day and finished up the sheet rocking.  The next day (Friday), I got up and waited on the painters, who didn’t arrive until late that afternoon.  Thankfully, they got right to workSeptember 2011_2011 09 02_2553September 2011_2011 09 02_2558

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My newly painted bathroom

Alex got arrived from Montgomery while they were working and got to meet the property manager when he came by to check on progress.  The property manager said “As soon as the painters leave, the cleaning crew is coming in.  If they don’t show, let me know, and I’ll crack the whip”.  I was so glad Alex was there when he said it because, true to form, no cleaners showed.

Alex was furious, but I was glad he finally got to experience the nonsense and incompetency I had been dealing with.  I called the property manager and told him they never showed, hoping he would call me back, but it being after hours, of course I heard nothing.  Since the painters didn’t wrap up until after 6:00, we didn’t have high hopes for the cleaners but we thought maybe he prepared them for a late job…apparently not.

I decided that it was not worth waiting on them so Alex and I decided to clean the bathroom ourselves so that I could move everything back in.  We went to Family Dollar, bought all the stuff, turned on Pandora and got to work.

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We were literally on our hands and knees scrubbing that bathroom from top to bottom…including mopping the floor 3 times. Let me tell you though, it was sparkling clean by the time we got done! 

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We got the bathroom all put back together and for the first time in over a year, I had a usable bathroom…it was wonderful!

Sorry, I didn’t take any after pictures…we were exhausted!

The following Monday was Labor Day, so of course there was no word from the property manager.  On Tuesday afternoon, I got a knock at the door and when I opened it, I saw one of the painters there with his wife and kid holding a mop, telling me he was there to clean.  Why the painter didn’t just stay and clean after he finished painting the other day, I don’t know, but I told him we’d already done it and we didn’t need it cleaned any more.  I also wanted to tell him that it was so nasty, a sole mop was not going to be helpful, but I kept my mouth shut and sent him on his way.

Although we got the bathroom clean, I was still waiting for them to send someone to put my light fixture back up.  The property manager did call on Thursday and leave a message saying he sent the cleaning crew and I turned them away, and that everything should be done now.  Of course it wasn’t (and still hasn’t been done a month later), but I’m tired of dealing of with them so I’ve just decided to deal with a naked light for a while :)

Anyway, I am still  have issues with a leak, but until it gets bad again…I’m leaving it alone.

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At least I have a shower again! :)

The End…kind of ;)

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Bathroom Blues, Part III

Read part I and II, here

So, when I last left off, the maintenance people were supposed to come for the third time, and of course, they didn’t.

That was on Saturday, and they were no shows, so we e-mailed the property manager (the one that has been the thorn in our sides this entire process) on Monday and let him know that they didn’t come.  This was his response back.

I’m sorry the painters did not show up like they had promised me they would.  They called me this morning and assured me that they were headed over there this morning, but per your email from Friday, I asked them to wait till Tuesday, because Monday was going to be a very busy day for Maegan.  I have instructed them to call me when they get there and I am personally going to walk them through what I would like for them to do, since sending them over there has proved to be unsuccessful to this point.  Please let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.

On Tuesday morning, I got up and got everything ready for them to come AGAIN.  They did finally arrive, only to tell me they had to go get the Killz and a ladder.  Maybe it is just me, but I would think that if you are coming to replace the sheetrock in a moldy bathroom, those would be two items you would come prepared with…apparently not.

Anyway, they stayed gone until after lunch and they FINALLY came back and got to work.  I got to hear all about one of the guy’s marital issues because he and his wife argued on the phone most of the time they were here, however, they did get the bathroom sprayed down with this Kilz stuff.  It immediately looked SO much better!September 2011_2011 08 30_2572

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They told me that they would be back the next day to finish everything up and I should be good to go.

As of 1:15 the following day, no one had come and I had received no correspondence from anyone.  Mom sent the property manager an e-mail and he said they would be back that afternoon, and maintenance would come the following day to replace the fixtures, and the cleaning crew would come in after that.

At about 5:00 pm, they showed up without a ladder again of course.  They even asked if they could borrow a step stool!  Anyway, I took them back there for them to get busy and I noticed a dark spot in the middle of the spot they patched up.  Guess what, it was a water spot!

So, they said they couldn’t do anything else until that was fixed so I called the realty company and the property manager came out to check it.  The water spot was pretty clear (although I didn’t take a picture of it), and he said he would send maintenance out the first thing in the morning to check on it.'

So here we go again…Stay tuned for the exciting conclusion of the “Bathroom Blues” saga ! ;)

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Bathroom Blues Part II

If you missed the intro to this drama, you can catch up here.

When I left off yesterday, I was waiting for the maintenance folks to show, and of course, my suspicions were right and they never came. We emailed the property manager, that we've been reluctantly dealing with this whole process, he read the email and never responded. Then, mom resorted to calling him early afternoon,and his only response was "they told me they were coming. Let me call them". She waited until she was getting ready to the leave the office, around 3, and emailed him again letting him know that he would have to call her on her cell phone. He finally called her back with some seemingly nonsense sorry about how they went to the wrong apartment complex and after going back and forth and her explaining we needed to know when they were coming so I could plan ahead (because remember, I have an emptied out bathroom ready for demolition, sheet rocking, etc) and he finally said that he would send them this morning, at 9:00 am. Mom assured him that if they didn't show, he would be getting a phone call.

So this morning, I got up early, got ready for a meeting I had at 11:00 since I knew it would be difficult for me to get ready while they were here, and patiently waited for them to arrive. 9:00 am ticked by and nothing, 10:00, 10:30 and before I knew it, it was time for me to go. Mom and I decided that, odds were that they were not coming, but I left a note on the bathroom door justin case. We also decided we'd wait until after I got out of my meeting at 2 to call the property manager and let him know that they didn't show (which I think is ridiculous hat we have to call him. Shouldn't he have called us to ask if they made it since they have already been no-shows twice? Just my thoughts). Mom called him around 2:30, and of course he did not answer the phone. She left him a nice long message about his lack of communication and management skills... I don't know, she was ticked haha.

Anyway, we've decided that our next step is to call the company's namesake. He's just a broker, but he seems to be the next step up and the only other option for now. Our plan is to explain the situation (because we are not sure how much he knows), and demand a solution and a timeline. We have also said that since we are subjected to using "their people", if they are no shows again, then we are hiring our own people and will send them the bill. If that doesn't help, I guess we could take it a step further and get building inspectors and health dept involved, but I hope it doesn't get to that. I just want to shower and get ready in my bathroom again! :(

At the time of this post, he has not called back, but I will be sure to update if he does.

Stay tuned.

Friday, August 26, 2011

Bathroom Blues, Part I

My apartment realty company and I have had an ongoing battle for over a year now…about my bathroom.

Note:  This post is LONG, but I need to sit down and write it out if for nothing else, but documentation purposes. I use this as a journal and this is something that I felt like I needed to sit down and write it out, however, if you choose to skip off this post, it won’t hurt my feelings ;)

For those of you still reading, here’s a timeline of the drama to get you up to speed:

February 2010 – I started noticing the ceiling above my shower was turning dark.  I originally chalked it up to shower steam, but when it started turning black, we e-mailed maintenance letting them know about the issue, and suggested that they might need to check for a leak.  They said it was probably just steam from the shower, and that there was nothing really they could do about it other than come paint.  I knew that it would be a long-drawn out process to set up a time for them to come paint, so we decided we’d tackle painting it ourselves later.

March 2010 – January 2011 – The dark spots got worse.  No, we never got around to painting over it, but again, we were told it was just mold on the surface so we were just trying to find the time. 

February 2011 – My parents and Alex had just left from my birthday weekend.  I walked into the bathroom and noticed the floor was wet and that there was water dripping from the sprinkler head in my bathroom ceiling.  I put my mop bucket under the drip, mopped up the water, and called my parents, who in turn, called/e-mailed maintenance the next morning. 

Water Dripping from Maegan Slaten on Vimeo.

 

They came out, checked it (of course it wasn’t dripping at the time they arrived), said that there was definitely an issue and went upstairs to investigate.  When they came back, they told me that it seemed that my upstairs neighbor wasn’t using his shower curtain properly, and water was all over the floor.  The theory was that water had been getting on the floor every time he took a shower, and had been seeping under the bathtub (which is right above mine), and had gotten so saturated that it started dripping out of the first exit point, which happened to be the sprinkler head.  They told me that they would leave him a note asking him to use his shower curtain, and would send someone the next week to paint over it.  I asked him if there was any way possible that it was a leak (since the water spots started right over my shower/bathtub rather in the middle of the ceiling where it started dripping out) and he said no.  He left, and that was that.

March 2011 -  No one came to check and/or paint over anything, and unfortunately, the dripping continued, but it was only occasionally.  Since we were pretty much told there wasn’t anything we could do about it, and that they would check in with us, we didn’t do much except learn to walk around the pink bucket that now had a permanent residence in the middle of my bathroom floor.

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April 2011 – The weeks prior the tornado, the dripping starting picking up.  With my crazy school schedule, I decided to wait until school wrapped up the first week of May so that I didn’t have folks in and out of my apartment while I was finishing up classes.  Then, the tornado hit, and with us trying to get out of town, and the whole city picking up the pieces (including the realty company which lost 150 houses), the water issue seemed minute.

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April 27th (creepy considering this was taken hours before the tornado hit)

May 2011 – August 2011 - When I returned to Tuscaloosa on May 1st, the bucket in my bathroom was overflowing.  IMG00431-20110502-1947Again, because of all the stuff going on around here, we didn’t want to call and complain, so I just dealt with it.  Even better, the drip seemed to stop completely for about a month.  One weekend, Alex was here visiting and  I noticed there was orange in the bottom of my light fixture globe.  Alex tapped it with the broom handle it was clearly orange sludge and water, but I decided to shut off the lights and since I would be gone the majority of July, I would deal with it when I got back, especially since I had no drips a month or so.

August 2011 – I came back from my mini-vacay in Montgomery, just long enough to switch out some clothes/do some laundry before heading home until school started back.  I walked in the bathroom, flipped on the light and the light over my toilet/shower area didn’t come on, but rather just made this terrible buzzing noise.  Not to mention, water was pouring out of the ceiling.  Thankfully, I had put a bucket there so it caught some of the water, but not at all of it.  I quickly shut the lights off, and went to grab a lamp so that I could do some stuff in the bathroom before calling them in the morning, and heading home.  Just as I was about to plug in the lamp in the one wall outlet I have in the bathroom, I noticed it was dark spots around the outlet.  I grabbed a flashlight, and this is what I saw

If you can’t tell, that is mold growing around the outlet, and the wet wall underneath.  Those dark lines are water running out of the wall/outlet!  I looked closer, and saw that that particular side of my counter, and everything on it was soaked.

The water pooled in the crevice around my counter

I was so thankful that I noticed it before I plugged my lamp in that particular outlet!  I immediately pulled the breakers for everything in the bathroom, found an extension cord, and plugged it up in the hall so I could get a better look at everything.  It was pretty bad…

Just a general picture to give you an idea of the layout of my bathroom.

The sink is on the other side of the shower where you see the dividing wall on the left.  The sprinkler head is right in front of the light fixture, but got cut off in this picture.  Remember, it started out over the shower, then the sprinkler head, then the light, and now the outlets, so you can see how far it has gone.

The water in the light fixture (the dark stuff)

The wall that separates my sink, and the shower…you can see some of the mold on the other side of the divider.  This is the wall where the outlet was.

The mold over the shower, at its worst.

It had started circling the ceiling in my bedroom too.

My mom sent an e-mail out the next day (we’ve learned from experience that getting things down in writing is much more effective, especially when you can easily CC the realty company owner ;)), explained the severity of the situation, and how we just couldn’t “wait” on them anymore and they came out to check.

The maintenance man, who originally came out in February and has been working with the company for a while, remembered me and my situation and imeadiately asked if anyone ever followed up with me in February.  When I told him they didn’t, he mad and said that they definitely “dropped the ball” on that one and profusely apologized telling me that he reported it to the maintenance director and the director was supposed to dispatch someone to come fix it.  Whatever, I didn’t care…I just wanted it fixed.

He took the fixture down and emptied it out and said he still felt it was an issue with the shower curtain not being used properly (from here on out, this idea will now be known as the “shower curtain theory” which has become the bane of my existence).  He went upstairs, checked and said that it appeared that the guy had just taken a shower and the floor was wet.  He said that he was going to put up a splash guard up in the shower upstairs to try to remedy the situation, and told me to let him know if it dripped any more.  We didn’t buy the “shower curtain theory” the first time it was mentioned, and I didn’t believe it then either, so I asked him again if there was any possible way it was the drain (by the way, this would make the third time we have suggested the idea that it might be a leak from a pipe/drane), and he said no and went on.

About 3 hours later, I went in the bathroom and water was dripping out of the light fixture.  We called/emailed them, and told them that this would be the perfect time to test out said theory.  They said they would try to get around to coming back out there, but they didn’t know if they would make it before the end of the work day.  I attempted to go upstairs and do a little investigating on my own, but since the guy didn’t come to the door, my plans failed.

By the time maintenance got there, around 6, the guy had already left, so they just went in and checked his apartment.  They still felt like it was the shower curtain, so he said that he would come back the next day and try something else.  That night it dripped from 4:00 pm until at least midnight.

The next evening, after they were supposed to do something else upstairs, I walked into my bathroom and there was water dripping out of the light fixture (both sides), sprinkler head, AND outlets.  I was grabbing every garbage can I could around the house just to catch the drips.  I called mom and just cried because I was SO frustrated.  I couldn’t get ready in my bathroom, couldn’t do laundry, and I had to dodge buckets every time I went in there.  I was already a couple of days late from my original planned “go home” date and had to cancel a few plans, and the fact that I was waiting on this and they had no solution was beyond annoying.

My mom sent a pretty snippy e-mail to them the next morning, about how I needed to be their top priority and they came out, about an hour later, wielding a saw-all, and telling me they were cutting the ceiling out (they were not happy, but neither was I, so for once I didn’t care that someone was pissed at me haha).  Before I knew it, they had thrown down a tarp, put a ladder in my bathtub and were sawing away.

I knew what had been dripping out of the ceiling, and could only imagine what was still up there, so despite their suggestions that “everything would be fine”, I was yanking down everything in the bathroom that could get damaged from an impending flood of mold/mildew, and sludgy water.

My bathroom decor hastily piled in the hallway.

Good thing too because as soon as he released the chunk of ceiling, black sludge and moldy water came pouring out all on top of him.  I hate to say that I had a difficult time stifling a giggle and even more so when he looked up in there and said, it looks like there’s a leak in the drain.  I have never wanted to say “Told ya so” as bad as I did that moment, but I kept my mouth shut.

All that black stuff streaking down the walls was black slime from the ceiling.  Nasty.

My bathtub after the flood of junk

After they swallowed their pride and admitted they were wrong the entire time, they headed upstairs to fix the leak.  Apparently, after cutting out the neighbor’s bathroom closet floor to get it, they realized that the drain had shifted and some of the water was dripping down into the ceiling rather than going down the pipe.  Even though I knew that’s probably what it was, it made me shudder to think that I was getting his dirty bath water…gross.

They cleaned up the bathroom, and told me that they had to wait a week or so for everything to dry out before they could finish it up.  I decided since my bathroom was out of commission, I would just go home until this week, when we started back to school.

So that brings us to today, they originally said they were coming on Wednesday, and of course no one showed.  Mom e-mailed them yesterday to get some sort of timeline, and when they didn’t respond, she finally called them to find out what the plans were.  They said that “the guy” would be here sometime, mid-morning today.  Currently it is almost noon, and no sign.  Sigh…looks like I will be showering over at my brother’s apartment again for the next few days.

Stay tuned….

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